Saturday, May 26, 2012

Broken Hearts

Not sure why I haven't written on here in so long, but it's probably for the better....
I don't really even know where to begin....

For 3 weeks in March, we had it all.....
Pregnant with twins and adopting a baby boy in June.... We were thrilled, nervous, but thrilled! :)
Then the first  blow came... we lost the twins
Now, we're dealing with the second blow.... an adoption scam

Over the last 6+ months we have gotten extremely close to a "birth mother." I say that in quotes because we don't even know for certain that she was ever even pregnant.
We had a great trip to MO and met her and 2 of her 3 boys.  Everything was going so well, we're not exactly sure how we ended up here.... with broken hearts....
She had suggested that her and her oldest son come here and we had a fun filled weekend all planned.
It never happened... we were strung along for several days, thinking that our son may be coming soon....

Here we sit, three weeks later, with only the answers we have pieced together.
We appear to have been victims of an adoption scam.
We are still trying to make sense of it all.  We can't figure out why she would have done this... we gave her no money..... it makes us sick to think that someone could do all this purely for the thrill of putting us through HELL....
She met with and fooled the social worker as well....
No one seems to have any answers, which makes this so much harder...
It's hard to imagine that someone would not only do this, but involve their children in their sick schemes....

Trying now to figure out what we can do to prevent her from putting anyone else through this living HELL....


Where do we go from here?

Still trying to figure that out.....

Prayers needed....